The Wedding In HCMC

HCMC

Our Wedding Celebration: A Blend of Tradition, Love, and Joy

We are thrilled to invite you to join us for a celebration that honors our love and the rich traditions that have shaped our lives. Our wedding day is designed to bring together cultural heritage, meaningful rituals, and modern festivities, creating a memorable experience for everyone. It will unfold in three significant parts, each carrying its unique beauty and symbolism:

1. Vietnamese Traditional Ceremony (Lễ Vu Quy)

The day begins with Lễ Vu Quy, a deeply meaningful Vietnamese tradition that marks the bride’s transition into her new family. This ceremony is a beautiful representation of respect for family, ancestral gratitude, and unity.

What to Expect: The groom’s family formally visits the bride’s family with a procession carrying symbolic gifts, such as betel leaves, tea, and fruits, presented to the bride’s family. These gifts symbolize prosperity, happiness, and the union of two families. Ancestral worship follows, where both families pay tribute to their forebears by offering incense at the family altar, seeking blessings for the couple’s harmonious and prosperous life together.
The Bride’s Farewell: A poignant and emotional moment as the bride bids goodbye to her parents and siblings, symbolizing her transition into her new family.

This ceremony is not only a celebration of love but also a tribute to family values and the deep-rooted cultural traditions of Vietnam.

2. The Vow Ceremony (Lễ Thành Hôn)

The Lễ Thành Hôn, or vow ceremony, is the most sacred and heartfelt part of our wedding day. It is the moment where we officially exchange our vows and commit to a lifetime together, witnessed by our families, friends, and ancestors.

What to Expect: The ceremony begins with ancestral worship, where we honor our roots and seek blessings. Then, we exchange vows, either in traditional silence with symbolic gestures or with personalized spoken promises that reflect our love and commitment.
Exchange of Rings: As a symbol of eternal love, we will exchange rings, often accompanied by gifts of jewelry from our families.
Blessings and Symbolic Rituals: We kneel before our parents to express gratitude and receive their blessings. Optional unity rituals, such as lighting candles or tying red threads, represent the blending of two lives into one.

This ceremony beautifully combines traditional Vietnamese elements with a modern touch, reflecting who we are as a couple while staying true to our roots.

3. Reception: A Joyous Celebration

The final part of our day is the reception, where we celebrate with laughter, music, and delicious food surrounded by our loved ones.

What to Expect: The evening begins with a warm welcome as guests arrive at the reception venue. The newlyweds will make their grand entrance, greeted with cheers and applause.
Highlights of the Reception:
- Cake Cutting: A sweet moment symbolizing our first act of sharing and nurturing each other.
- First Dance: A magical moment where we share our first dance as a married couple, set to a song that holds special meaning for us.
- Speeches and Toasts: The toastmaster and close family members will share heartfelt speeches, filled with love, laughter, and best wishes.
- Mother-Daughter Dance: A touching moment where the bride shares a dance with her mother, symbolizing their bond and gratitude.
- Dance Floor Opens: The evening concludes with music and dancing as the DJ or live band invites everyone to celebrate and create lasting memories together.

Why These Traditions Matter to Us

Our wedding day is more than just a celebration of our love—it is a reflection of who we are and the values we hold dear. Through these three parts, we aim to honor our heritage, celebrate the union of our families, and create a joyous atmosphere for everyone who has supported us on our journey.

Thank you for being part of this special day. Each moment, from the solemn traditions to the lively reception, is made more meaningful by your presence. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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12 Jan The Wedding In HCMC

06:30 - 09:00 The Bride's House

The Vietnamese Traditional Ceremony

Lễ Vu Quy: Vietnamese Traditional Wedding Ceremony Lễ Vu Quy, or "The Departure Ceremony," is a cherished Vietnamese tradition marking the bride’s transition to her groom’s family. It’s a celebration of love, family unity, and respect for ancestry, blending vibrant rituals with deep cultural significance. What to Expect: Groom’s Family Procession (Rước Dâu): The groom’s family formally visits the bride’s home, with the groomsmen presenting symbolic gifts (tráp) to the bridesmaids as part of the ceremony. Ancestral Worship: Both families honor their ancestors with incense offerings. Bride’s Farewell: A heartfelt moment as the bride bids goodbye to her family. Exchange of Rings and Blessings: The couple exchanges rings and receives blessings from their parents. Festivities: After the ceremony, families gather for a celebratory lunch featuring traditional Vietnamese dishes. Rooted in tradition, Lễ Vu Quy is a timeless celebration of love, family bonds, and cultural heritage.

16:00 - 17:30 Saigon South Marina Bay, HCMC

The Ceremony (Vow Ceremony)

What Happens During a Western Vow Ceremony? 1. Processional: The ceremony begins with the processional, where the wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, etc.) enters the venue, culminating in the bride’s grand entrance. This moment, accompanied by music, sets an exciting and emotional tone. 2. Welcome and Opening Remarks: The officiant greets the guests and shares a brief introduction about the significance of the ceremony and the couple’s love story. 3. Exchange of Vows: The couple exchanges vows, the heart of the ceremony. These can be traditional, such as: "I, [Name], take you, [Name], to be my lawfully wedded [wife/husband/partner], to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part." Alternatively, personalized vows may include heartfelt messages, shared dreams, or memorable anecdotes. 4. Exchange of Rings: The officiant invites the couple to exchange rings, symbolizing their eternal bond and commitment to one another. 5. Unity Ritual (Optional): Many couples include a unity ritual, such as lighting a unity candle, pouring sand into a single vessel, tying a knot, or planting a tree together. These symbolize the blending of two lives into one. 6. Pronouncement of Marriage: The officiant declares the couple married with words like, “By the power vested in me, I now pronounce you [husband and wife/married partners].” 7. First Kiss: The couple shares their first kiss as newlyweds, marking the sealing of their vows. 8. Recessional: The ceremony concludes with the couple walking back down the aisle together, followed by their wedding party, as guests cheer and celebrate their union.

17:30 - 18:30 Saigon South Marina Bay, HCMC

Cocktail Hours

After the ceremony, the bridal party along with immediate family will be taking photos on property. At this time, guests will be directed to the cocktail area where you can enjoy passed apps and refreshing beverages. Make sure to check out our signature drinks at the bar!

18:30 - 22:00 Saigon South Marina Bay, HCMC

The Reception -

Reception Schedule: 1. Reception Kickoff: Guests are welcomed into the beautifully decorated venue with light music as they settle in. The newlyweds make a grand entrance, announced by the emcee, to applause and cheers. -> 2. Cake Cutting: The couple performs the ceremonial cake cutting, symbolizing their first act of sharing and nurturing each other. Photos are taken, and the cake is served after dinner or during dessert. -> 3. First Dance: The couple shares their first dance to a meaningful song, creating a magical and intimate moment as guests watch and cheer.-> 4. Toastmaster’s Speech: The toastmaster, often a close friend or family member, delivers a heartfelt speech, followed by additional toasts sharing funny or touching stories about the couple. -> 5. Mother-Daughter Dance: The bride shares a dance with her mother, symbolizing their bond and gratitude, often set to an emotional and special song. -> 6. Dance Floor Opens: The DJ or live band kicks off the dancing with upbeat music. The couple leads the way, inviting everyone to join in and celebrate the night away.

22:00 - 23:50 TBC